@suchAbellaWoman@stout_87 I agree with this. It’s like you meet somebody and y’all are kind of locked in to how y’all met and you kinda gottaforce a friendship outside of that due to how y’all live yall life already
@suchAbellaWoman Yuuuppp that’s why I’m cool with only having club and going out friends. I don’t want anything further than that at my big ass age. I’m okay with the genuine friendships I have
@stout_87 I have a theory that once you reach a certain age, the friendship application is done. We are too grown to be looking for friends. We have a category of people: neighbors ( good neighbor and the neighborhood neighbor), coworkers, gym group, kids' friends and last associates
Black folks with a lot of white friends and intimates pretty much always have questionable character. They move in such a weird way bc they’ve spent SO much time around the whites. They don’t even realize it
When I was in high school and white kids would call me nigga I’d say “CAN YOU PLEASE NOT CALL ME THE N WORD” as loud as I could so the whole class would hear and they’d say “wtf are you talking about I didnt say that” their ability to lie so defiantly like they genuinely believed what they were saying was scary as fuck