im well aware all of us are battling our own demons/hells but let me also say that THAT should never be used as an excuse to do these kinds of things. ive been there, learned & reflected. again there's just no valid reason to invade someone's private life for ur own satisfaction.
in all my years of being a kpop stan I've done the 'peace talks' 'dm talks'. that literally did not change anything. they respond by validating their sasaeng behavior & use the victim card. that gave me tons of depression & had to relearn that i shouldnt have been that tolerant
its been over months since ive read people talking abt irl things abt pl4v3. and since 'kind talk' isnt working, then harsh language should do the trick. this behavior of being overly curious should not be normalized.
if u're ever curious abt something w/ PL4V3:
- irl looks
- irl past time /private scheds
- irl address
- irl relationships
NO YOU FKING DONT. if u actually are curious, burn ur phone, touch grass & get fking therapy.
there's a very thicc af borderline fans of any media are not suppose to cross, and thats invading the PERSONAL / PRIVATE lives of the person/people we stan. there's literally no valid reason nor any excuse to behave like this.
if there are any plli who follow me that are discussing the boys' private life/trying to find out the boys' irl on ur own, then i beg yall to block me real quick. am not gonna associate with fking sasaengs in this cute fandom. yall can go straight to h3ll.
I will not surgarcoat this. there's no "yall should discuss this privately or dm it"
HELL NAH. DONT DISCUSS IT. IT SHOULDNT BE TALKED ABOUT IN THE FIRST PLACE.