Sitting beside my nana today, and watching him talk and smile while he doesn’t even know he is fighting the last stage of cancer. It breaks something inside me, the thought that this might be one of the last times I sit next to him, listening to his stories, feels unbearable.
Sitting beside my nana today, and watching him talk and smile while he doesn’t even know he is fighting the last stage of cancer. It breaks something inside me, the thought that this might be one of the last times I sit next to him, listening to his stories, feels unbearable.
Sitting beside my nana today, and watching him talk and smile while he doesn’t even know he is fighting the last stage of cancer. It breaks something inside me, the thought that this might be one of the last times I sit next to him, listening to his stories, feels unbearable.
Whatever is making you anxious, desperate and low, it's time to let it go. Having tawakul is so cool like you can give the matter in the hands of the Almighty who actually controls it. Ruining your mental health for things which aint in your control brings negativity in you.
Astaghfirullah for when I've felt superior to others. Astaghfirullah for when I struggle to forgive someone for the wrongs they've done to me. Astaghfirullah for the sins I've committed, both those I remember and those I've forgotten to seek repentance for.
sometimes even an apology can’t fix what happened because the real issue is not the mistake, it’s the part of your character that allowed you to do it in the first place. and you can’t apologize for character.
Narcissists infect people, just like a disease. They have the uncanny ability of turning people into one of them, if you’re around them long enough. No Contact is always the best course of action. What will happen is you will start to take on narcissistic behaviors yourself. #fleas #Narcissists
girl said, “I'm not here to control you. I'm not your mom, I'm your partner. You're free to make your own choices but just know, some choices come with 0 consequences. If you decide to do things that could ruin what we've built, that's on you. I'll always speak up about what hurts me or makes me uncomfortable, because that's what real communication is. But if you keep crossing the line after I've told you where it is, then clearly... you were never planning to stay on my side in the first place.” && that’s it!! >>
i lost all respect for people who saw me breaking and still chose to break me more. You knew I was tired, trying to find my way back to myself, and you still made me question if love or loyalty even exist. It’s crazy how some people can look you in your eyes, see the pain, and still cause more of it. That’s the type of sht that changes you forever……makes you colder, quieter, and careful about who gets close again.
A lot of people don't realise this but if you ask Allah for something and you don't have the emotional, physical, mental or spiritual capacity for it yet, then Allah may make you go through life experiences that will force you to grow and exceed your limits to become the person worthy of that blessing. Your struggle is not without purpose. Trust His process.
after all these years on social media, i’ve learned one thing the more you open up to people, the less they care. they get bored when they know too much. being mysterious keeps them guessing, and that’s exactly what keeps them interested.
walk away.
If they confuse you more than they reassure you, walk away. If their words sound sweet but their actions leave you empty, walk away. If you always feel like you’re asking for the bare minimum—time, effort, honesty,walk away. Because love isn’t supposed to drain you, it’s supposed to grow you. The right person won’t make you beg for clarity, won’t make you question your value, won’t make you fight for a place in their life. They’ll choose you, openly and consistently. And if they don’t, have the strength to walk away—because losing someone who doesn’t see your worth is never truly a loss.