Cherry Reed (they/them)

Aussie sex blogger writing about sexuality & gender, and reviewing sex toys for people with tiny vaginas. Queer and nonbinary ~ they/them

[Cherry Reed (they/them) @cherryreedblog]

Hey everyone. Long time no see. I have some updates and they're not positive I'm afraid.

I'm going to have to shut down my blog.

[Cherry Reed (they/them) @cherryreedblog]

So, this is goodbye, I guess. I thought about deactivating my twitter account, but this is the only sex-positive space on the internet that I have, so I'm going to keep it around for now.

[Cherry Reed (they/them) @cherryreedblog]

Hey everyone. Long time no see. I have some updates and they're not positive I'm afraid.

I'm going to have to shut down my blog.

[Cherry Reed (they/them) @cherryreedblog]

Also, unless you are a famous sex blogger getting products for free in exchange for review, sex toy collecting is a hobby that requires a LOT of money to support. It also requires a safe living situation where you have privacy and/or can be open about what you do. I have neither.

[Cherry Reed (they/them) @cherryreedblog]

@MxNillinLore Thank you! I will message you. (Took me a while to get to this, very overwhelmed atm)

[Cherry Reed (they/them) @cherryreedblog]

Would any experienced polyam folk be willing to chat to me via DM about polyamory/answer my noob questions?

[Cherry Reed (they/them) @cherryreedblog]

@BexTalksSex This looks like a fascinating workshop tbh. I'm glad *someone* is talking about sex physics!!

[Cherry Reed (they/them) @cherryreedblog]

Insisting on unplanned verbal communication without warning (phone calls)

[Sarah Boon #StopTheShock @Saraheboon]

We’re often branded as having ‘challenging behaviours’ by non-autistics.

#AskingAutistics

What behaviours do non-autistics have that you find challenging?

[Rachael Rose @hedonish]

Having ADHD and being chronically ill means my brain has about 7000x more energy than my body—and it's absolutely as frustrating as it sounds.

[Cherry Reed (they/them) @cherryreedblog]

@elisabeth For me all anxiety is anticipatory by definition, but I don't know if "anxiety" is actually the right word. Either way I've experienced that!

[Cherry Reed (they/them) @cherryreedblog]

Serious question: do you think there is such a thing as "tasteless" porn? And by tasteless I don't mean unethical.

[Cherry Reed (they/them) @cherryreedblog]

@clue Even bigger question: why do we need a specific brand of gloves, that are PINK, to protect us against our own blood? If you don't want to touch it, fine, but you can just use ordinary disposable gloves from the supermarket?! Oh wait, can't do that...cause they're not PINK...🤦

[Cherry Reed (they/them) @cherryreedblog]

And preferably queer-inclusive.

[Cherry Reed (they/them) @cherryreedblog]

Does anyone know of a resource about how to engage with sex workers, that would be suitable for someone with mild social difficulties due to autism? (Please RT)

[Cherry Reed (they/them) @cherryreedblog]

It has to be a really explicit, "rules for engagement" type of thing, no assumed knowledge.

[Meg - Witch Of the Wands @WitchofTheWands]

Previously on Witch of the Wands. Making Your Own Orgasmic Full Moon Ritual https://t.co/eR5d3ugyCQ

[Cherry Reed (they/them) @cherryreedblog]

@IntellectHomo I hear you. Vulnerability is hard, and bigotry in the blogging community hasn't helped. It's part of the reason I haven't been blogging as much

[Cherry Reed (they/them) @cherryreedblog]

@HodgePodgeEnt You're welcome! I can't wait to review more of your creations soon 😁

[Cherry Reed (they/them) @cherryreedblog]

And here it is - my review of @HodgePodgeEnt 's Sylph (S/S)! https://t.co/xwsMRQjAWL

[Cherry Reed (they/them) @cherryreedblog]

@SpaceDigitalist I much prefer watching people play games to playing them myself! It's kinda like watching a movie. Might just be because my cognitive dysfunction makes gameplay hard though