The greatest lesson I've learnt in life is everything, I mean EVERYTHING is a lesson.
I've made hundreds of mistakes, failed so many times at so many things,but when I reflect back, all I can think of is I'd never be who I am today if all that shit didn't happen. Keep going!...
HOW TO EARN RESPECT:
1. Do not call anyone more than twice.
2. Do not be more friendly than necessary with anyone.
3. Do not share your personal goals with people who don't support you.
4. Talk less observe more.
5. Do not let anyone know your next move.
6. Build multiple income streams to secure your independence.
7. If it's not necessary to speak stay silent.
8. Do only what aligns with your principles.
9. If someone has added value to your life never forget to show gratitude.
10. Never argue to prove your worth let your results speak for you.
You have a big goal. You think about it often.
But if someone asked you how today's to-do list moves you closer to it, you'd struggle to answer.
The solution is a goal stack.
A goal stack is a reverse-engineered chain that connects a distant ambition to what you do today.
Each layer feeds the one above it:
Layer 1: High Hard Goal (1-5 years). An ambitious target that pushes you past your comfort zone.
Layer 2: Break it down into annual targets, quarterly milestones, monthly objectives, and weekly tasks. Each level builds on the previous one, creating a logical progression toward the High Hard Goal.
Layer 3: Daily Goal-Directed Actions. The single most important task you can do today, the one domino that triggers a chain reaction toward your High Hard Goal.
At the end of each workday, take 10 minutes to plan tomorrow.
Identify three goal-directed actions. Set wildly specific micro-goals for each.
Then take the first step of the first step before you stop for the night.
Open the document. Title it. Save it in the right folder.
When you do this, your daily actions connect upward through the stack to the thing you actually care about.
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- Rian