Im reading “The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck.” And one point that has been on my mind lately is the backwards affect.
Manson talks about how being more vulnerable and real can actually make you appear more secure and confident.
How not giving a fuck if something happens can actually make it happen faster. When you push for something, you send out a frequency that it’s not yours and delay it.
And in the “Gene Keys” by Richard Rudd there’s a quote that goes, “Thus it is said that only when all hope of finding the grail is lost can the grail finally be found.” Another backwards effect.
Pay attention this effect in your own life. Because now that I am, I’m seeing it everywhere.