Also - each child having their own bedroom is middle-class luxury communism.
They will be more intellectually and socially engaged sharing a room with siblings.
Children are not meant to retreat into their own hermit crab shell. They must know they are part of a system.
Life's feeling a bit hollow. I am on my own time after many years & it feels like i should be somewhere, doing something, but i don't really know what i should do. There's a sense of urgency because i own my time technically. I don't feel relief.