The family of Nothabo Zandile Khumalo have set up a GoFundMe, managed by her aunt, Sharon Khumalo, to help cover the costs of repatriating their loved ones to Zimbabwe and funeral-related expenses.
If you’re able, please consider supporting:
https://t.co/jnIkIgGoPS 1/2
He even printed out the first DM he sent me after we met in December — he meant every word of that, so intentional. 😍
What a perfect evening of being asked out by the lomleh bethuna. Spent 6+ hours there chatting, laughing, watching the sunset etc etc. 🥺❤️ I loved everything.
the treatment of dark-skinned women always seems to exist on a spectrum of extremes. it's either discrimination through colourism and misogynoir, or an overemphasis on their "chocolate", "melanin-rich", "nubian skin”. people rarely seem to just treat them as ordinary people.
One of the very core skills in adulthood is realizing some shege you’ll experience is just your turn. You didn’t cause it or have a part to play, it’s just your turn and it’ll pass
Stop being so considerate in situations where you are not considered. Kindness is a gift, not an obligation. You'll be drained if you keep pouring into people who don't reciprocate. Protect your spirit and well-being. Redirect your warmth toward those who reflect it back to you.