Clinical researcher and data scientist with an interest and specialization in TF-CBT and addressing pediatric complex grief. Chicago sports fan & F1 enthusiast.
As a psychologist, I’m really trying to bring my voice to this.
Over my career, I’ve seen many people with (natural) complex traumatic stress responses from (unnatural) environments. Yet, they’re not taught to understand their behavior as adaptions. Even worse, their trauma is often invalidated. Or told it’s part of a “normal” childhood. Without awareness that what’s normal in culture is highly dysfunctional and sometimes destructive.
It’s clear we are suffering. It’s time to stop pretending and denying.
Complex trauma is not recognized in the diagnostic manual. It’s so important to give people self understanding and hope. To know that there IS healing.
There’s more to life than diagnosing and telling people they have no agency over their lives.
We have a collective issue we don’t talk about.
We have adults who:
-can’t build healthy relationships
-who please so much, they abandon themselves in the process
-who are filled with anger and repressed rage
-who sabotage their partnerships
-who continue to go into cycles of stress and chaos because it’s all they know
-who feel so depressed and overwhelmed for VALID
-who are so hypervigilant and overstimulated they’re stuck in survival mode
Please educate yourself. Advocate for you, your family, and your community’s health. Use the resources in this video (if you’re called) to start your healing process.
May we break the generational cycle.
PLEASE RETWEET FOR AWARENESS
@RFentonMD Sad to hear you’ve experienced this. I’ve had this before and my reply was to be addressed as “Dr. b*tch” in the future. (thankfully it didn’t happen again)
The world looks different now. She was great at defying expectation. She managed to grow very old and somehow, not old enough. We’ll miss you, Betty. Now you know the secret.
I fully recognize @FedEx that I shipped late (Monday) however I was willing to pay the fee to send overnight only to find out two days later via a call to customer Svc that my package never left the originating location. Too sad beyond words. #Stillsittingthere@FedExHelp
Goodnight RTs
And goodnight EKGs
Goodnight X-rays
And goodnight trauma bays
Goodnight charts
And goodnight bronch cart
Goodnight vents
Goodnight PEEP
And goodnight to the CRRT machine, alarming “BEEP”
Goodnight nurses
Goodnight patient care
Goodnight medicine, everywhere
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