If you allow the fake life in social media to dictate your relationship dynamics, you will only be setting yourself up for disappointment.
Many people don't practice what they preach, some people post fake surprises and gifts just to show off
Be wise.
I don't know how your relationship with your dad is or how you were raised, but I can never see cooking for my father as slavery. I love my dad too much to not cook for him when my mom is not around.