nobody extends grace anymore and it’s so sad. life is hard for everyone. you miss one birthday and now you’re an enemy, you forget to do something and now you’re unreliable. Always extend grace because you don’t know how many times it’s been extended to you.
Marry the man who calls you back after an argument, checks on you to see if you're okay, and makes sure you know he still cares about you. The man who doesn't disappear when things get hard, who chooses fixing over ignoring, who doesn't raise his voice to win, and who tries to understand instead of proving a point. Marry the man who makes you feel safe to speak, safe to feel, safe to be human even during the hard times. That's the kind of love worth choosing every day.
stop letting people manipulate you into believing all you wanna do is argue when you’re speaking on what they did to you or how they made you feel .. that’s a narcissistic babe & you will NEVER win in their world. get as far away as you can!