This is what “women’s love language is not having to ask” actually means btw
It doesn’t keeping score on chores, it means going out of your way to be kind and anticipate each other’s needs
Relational, not transactional
Extremely busy men are usually emotionally unavailable, and there’s literally nothing you can do with an emotionally unavailable man who’s obsessed with work.
When I was younger I said I wasn’t spending xy & z on a ring, but the older I got, I realized I can’t have my wife out here half stepping representing me in no capacity. She gone have Mount Everest on her hand.