People get so caught up in the shame of being called out on something, that they make the situation ten times bigger than what it had to be. Life could be so simple if accountability was normalized. You did a thing I didn’t like. I named it. You acknowledge/apologize. We move on.
A woman refuses to let an entire airplane full of passengers exit because she wants her daughter (who is several seats behind her) to be let up first.
This is rock bottom IQ and abysmal civic etiquette at work.