I hate being that person, but you can be accomplished, educated, and successful while still engaging in behavior that people would describe as “ghetto.” I think the word struck a nerve because people often assume “ghetto” means someone can’t be accomplished, and that’s simply not true.
That said, a more refined person, especially given your background, is typically not engaging in certain kinds of low-brow conversations or constantly perpetuating that type of discourse. Your achievements and your conduct aren’t mutually exclusive. Both can be true at the same time.
Men are hyper sexual demons! That’s why y’all can’t fathom the thought that women can go without. It’s hard for y’all to believe that everyone is not as lustful and compulsive as y’all are.