someone's lack of effort is their lack of interest in you, someone's lack of interaction is their lack of resonance with you, & someone's lack of response is your lack of importance to them regardless of what they tell you.
CAN’T WAIT TO MOVE INTO A SIMPLE APARTMENT WITH THE LOVE OF MY LIFE AND FALL ASLEEP AND WAKE UP NEXT TO THEM AND COOK DINNER WITH THEM AND HAVE RANDOM MIDNIGHT TRIPS AND STAY UP LATE PLAYING VIDEO GAMES OR WATCHING MOVIES AND BEING ABLE TO SHARE EVERY MOMENT OF MY LIFE WITH THEM
Nobody tells you how hard it is to rewire your brain so you can allow amazing things to happen to you after so much trauma or hurt. Blessings exist, good people exist, a softer life exists. Let it happen.
Why is it important to embrace healing?
Because one day, you will come face to face with a situation that will bring you to your knees, if you aren't already. And you will need the tools, self-love, and resilient spirit to stand back up.
When someone compliments the way you think, the way your kindness lights up the world, how well you carry yourself and how warm your heart is, it just hits differently.