When you are at the verge of collapsing.
Don't tell anyone, don't feel sorry for yourself, no one will pity you. Sit firmly, think decisively, and focus on how to elevate yourself. Do what needs to be done, so when you emerge, you will be reborn, radiant and shining like Gold.
You are still becoming. And one day, you will look back and realize that what broke your heart was also making room for the person you were meant to become.