people really need to understand that there is actually a difference between attraction and your actions. it is so messed up to put all of this pressure on one person. one person is not the reason why men think they can change lesbians. the patriarchy does that all on its own
@femmepyr r u talking about like actual men or trans women? /genq i see a lot of people talking about this but theyre really just talking about trans women. 100% its valid to not want to date one because of the sexual preference, but by no way are u a lesbian if you have sex w men at all
@dinazbabee@2dcel he him lesbians are just a pronoun thing like some women are comfortable with masculine pronouns it doesnt make them a man idk. trans men lesbians arent valid tho
@misandrycreator iโm not an MRA, but iโm not a TERF either. i believe in feminism but im not a misandrist. although misandry doesnโt oppress men in the same way misogyny kills women. i believe in trans rights
@misandrycreator interesting. that wont get you very far in real life though. im a woman so i know that men can be difficult to deal with but really theyre not all bad. i dont know what you dealt with to feel like being kind to them is pointless, but i hope u can mature a bit lol