I'm not even saying that tcoaal is any good but it doesn't have as many problematic aspects; one of the only notable problematic parts of it is the incest, whilst okegom has a FUCK TON more problematic stuff such as rape and pedophilia.
I just want to make it clear once again that I'm uncomfortable with Medhammer. I'm really sorry for bringing this up again.
I'm genuinely happy and honored that you want to interact with me, but I'm not sure if we can become close when I dislike Medhammer and you like it...
don't worry guys just because sling uses she/her more now doesn't mean you can't use he/him on them. inphernals go by any pronouns. she/her sling is popular now, but you can use whichever pronouns float your boat. I personally use he/they on them usually.