one thing you need to understand about women is what position they are assuming, asking questions or making a stand.
right now she's asking the question as an imaginary wife, and she feels the husband needs to consult her before giving his mother money.
she won't feel the same way if she is the sister to the man, or mother of the man.
If a Woman’s response to silence is not apology but to be a whore then you might as well let her go be a whore.
Go find a young 20 something girl and continue your life.
When your woman wrongs you and and refuses to apologize or take responsibility,
I hope you are aware that she still expects you to be the one to “initiate communication” as the man to mend or resolve the gap that her own actions have created between you two?
They can freely stigmatize the “silent treatment” because they know that the burden of maintaining smooth relations is on you, not them.
You people should stop flattening nuances in these convos.
Women love that word “communicate”.
They are always talking, always want you to be talking as well.
Before you know it, “Why are you talking like a woman don’t you know you’re a man?”
@Wizarab10 And then when you finally react and say the wrong thing in the heat of the moment because they want you to speak, the entire conversation suddenly shifts from what was done to you… to how you responded. You become the aggressor. Lol
That you like addressing issues immediately doesn’t mean others have to. Your coping mechanism is personal to you.
A person choosing to be incommunicado till have have dealt internally with how you wrong them before choosing to speak to you, is valid like mad.
You clam they are being manipulative by ‘keeping malice’ but you’re the one being manipulative by wanting someone you offended to want to speak to you in your own time of convenience as against theirs.
As usual, the focus is always on the man's reaction, never on the action of the woman who provoked it.
Woman misbehaves, refuses to accept that she misbehaved, and thus, refuses to apologise.
Man reacts by withdrawing affection.
Verdict: Man bad, woman good.