@minnano_dougaww this store clerk is a jerk, but it’s not a reflection of every japanese clerk. once of the clerks at my apartment connivence store was a jerk, but not just to me because i’m a foreigner, he was also rude to my husband who is japanese! sometimes people are just jerks for no reason
@cherrycomplains@vanbosic@emmasarchivee i’m the same height and cw and i consider 54-56 perfect for our height. i think that last 10-15 pounds are always the most stubborn unfortunately, you have to be quite scrict to reach it (although i’m also fluctuating)
@nymfettes then when i lost weight, meanwhile still a healthy bmi and she was underweight, she’d go “you look way too skinny you shouldn’t lose anymore weight!”… she was skinnier than me… like are you my best friend or my enemy?
@nymfettes yep my old best friend with anorexia use to try and feed me all the time. i would look at a snack and she’d grab it off the shelf, push it into my chest and go “You should buy that!! no i’ll buy it for you!!” and i’d say no it’s too high calorie, then “no you should get it!” 😒
@starzyx_ccc i don’t think it’s that bad… i’d say change the shoes to timberlands… and opt for darker colors if your doing very black tights, like dark wash shorts/jean skirt and maybe maroon or navy long sleeve? like elena gilbert vibes kinda. but those girls are awful like mean girls fr
@pyjamadoll @kukyoa i got a thigh gap at bmi 19.1! you don’t have to be underweight to get one🫶 but obviously the lower you go the more prominent it is. 18.5 is probably ideal for one.
@kogumacutie@rottenbbdoll i just read the poll rules and i get why ppl said yes, (i’d say yes too), but my point still stands for irl though, some people with anorexia try to tear others down and fatten them up when all they should be worried abt is themselves and their bodies yk?
@Niafatorexic@rottenbbdoll oh i didn’t read that. well obviously vote yes then help your poor friend diet and exercise together ig?😭 honestly what kind of poll is this, hypothetically sad situations lol.
@Yukiofsquidgame@angel_ed_22 a grape is 2-4 calories, you can have 26 for 52-104 calories, it’s not that bad. to be safe count each grape as 3 calories and u can have 33 for only 100 cal!
i can hear my neighbors fighting but i can’t understand anything cause he’s shouting in japanese… it puts me on edge though it’s almost midnight and i’ve heard him shouting before :(
#edtwt i’m going to be trying kpop diets, first the somi diet for 3 days, then the IU diet for 3 days, and i’m willing to try more! should i post my results? mostly as a way to hold myself accountable but also if your curious about what i lose!
☆ somi — the banana diet
somi had a diet that consisted of having three bananas a diet, one for breakfast, one for lunch and one for dinner, which gave her a daily intake under 300 calories
@cutecutezo yes you are. you should want your friend to be healthy, not use her to make yourself less insecure. i have eating disorders too but keep them to yourself, your ed is a you problem, don’t use it as an excuse to be a bad friend. actually u shoud remove yourself from her life.