@Erisalyoshy I want to apologize if my first comment came off as rude. I was heavily repressed till I was 18 and pretty transphobic and like casually misogynistic in that yucky teen boy way, still trying to fully unlearn that, but that's given me strong feelings on repressing.
@Erisalyoshy That's definitely gonna have an effect on it. It's okay to feel hurt, it's okay to vocalize that you're hurt especially given your situation. I just think it's disingenuous to claim reppers are evil or cruel for being unable to articulate their identity yet.
@Erisalyoshy I don't think that's a particularly healthy way to look at it. Cruelty, to me, is primarily defined by intention, although you can definitely be cruelly negligent. I don't think reppers repressing and being unable to put those feeling forward is cruelly negligent however.
@Erisalyoshy I totally understand being upset, that's valid. It's just better to direct it away from someone who didn't know any better. People change and grow and so will both of you.
@Erisalyoshy You're definitely right that it's done out of weakness, however I still wouldn't ascribe cruel or mean to it. Maybe misguided or afraid of change/confrontation. Just because someone was hurt doesn't mean the hurter is bad, we do things we don't realize will hurt others often.
@beastm0der I always kinda despised one for all so if that was the main good perk a gun had I would just kinda write it off, except The Call but that was more of a "if I have to" situation