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[dudefly @chuckynunchuck]

Don't be the kind of misogynist who tells women to cook; be the kind of misogynist who cooks because you can't trust women in the kitchen

[dudefly @chuckynunchuck]

@BendiTheBagak Libtard2 yg sokong dia lupa atau buat2 lupa apa dia ckp pasal isu palestine, kalau conservative komen mcm tu sampai berkurun kena label zionist, apparently they forgive and forget what she said, as long as on thier side.

[dudefly @chuckynunchuck]

@JatIkhwan "you don't actually care about the victim but just taking opportunity to dunk on women" jawapan yg akan diterima bila point out.

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Malay is diverse

[dudefly @chuckynunchuck]

Dari dulu lagi aku dah advocate jangan londeh & pukul penyondol je, instead, pukul bini kau yang gatal tu. But of course there were. Sebab apa? Sebab nak normalize to not hold woman accountable for wrecking their own marriage

[kamaghul deghaman @kamaghul]

Isteri kena tangkap khalwat dengan JAIS. hancur hati suami bila tengok ni. Apa nak jadi lah zaman sekarang ni 😅

[dudefly @chuckynunchuck]

@na_hadf I mean, do you really think she cares about the issue or just taking opportunity for man bashing? This is a no brainer

[dudefly @chuckynunchuck]

kalau sbb puji ni jadi masalah then keep your pujian we don't need it, as long as you happy, banyak betul masa lapang nak cari isu dlm semua benda

[dudefly @chuckynunchuck]

Girls in quotes making up imaginary scenario yg lelaki hamak pujian sbb jaga anak, trust me suami yg ikhlas jaga anak tu tak mintak pun pujian, lain kali kalau ada acik2 puji pergi la makin hamuk acik tu puji laki je apasal tak puji isteri. Nak marah siapa sbrnya ni

[AZZURA | Parenting and Family Psychology @n_azzurajafri]

“Bila lelaki buat benda basic macam tolong jaga anak, terus dipuji ‘best husband’. Hello, that’s bare minimum as a father.”

Tbh saya risau dengan benda ini. Adakah "bare minimum" tak layak dapat ucapan terima kasih atau pujian?

Biasakan puji/terima kasih for small things.

"Terima kasih abang belanja makan"
"Terima kasih abang beli barang rumah"
"Terima kasih sayang jagakan anak"
"Terima kasih sayang buatkan air teh"
"Terima kasih kejut saya"

Nanti dengan anak pun terbiasa.
"Terima kasih Asma' kemas mainan"
"Bagusnya Asma' main dengan adik"

Puji efforts/good behavior can increase the likelihood to the behavior reoccur again. Plus, org yg diucap terima kasih rasa dihargai. Orang yang cakap terima kasih mencambah rasa syukur dalam diri.

"A person who is appreciated will do more than expected"

Kadang orang terlepas pandang. Small things MATTER

[Hazim Al-Sha'lami @wqoole]

These guys take themselves way too seriously. No disrespect to Sneako but all his Malay fans drooool over him just for talking about surface level politics and for being pro-Palestine. I am blowing it smoove if I have to interact with his fans again.

[dudefly @chuckynunchuck]

@meinmokhtar Mcm pernah baca, tk tau la siapa tulis smlm

[dudefly @chuckynunchuck]

@meinmokhtar Benda bare minimum tu jgk la yg perempuan keep on bebel utk laki buat, bila nmpk suami org buat kata bare minimum, yeah they don't want to see happy men and woman in loving happy relationship, laki appreciate wife anda, wife pulak appreciate suami yg anda, walaupun sekecil bnda.

[dudefly @chuckynunchuck]

@elorakdshn Genuine and honest question, kalau isteri pulak curang awak advocate tak suami belasah isteri curang tu? Simple yes or no

[dudefly @chuckynunchuck]

@daisytiddies Mmg ada dlm kitab feminist, this issue has been highly debated, use it as a weapon sis

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@n_azzurajafri Awak sendiri boleh nilaikan berapa ketul perempuan je setuju dgn nasihat awak? Baru je haritu lelaki nasihat sesama laki apa habit perlu diubah selepas kawin, komen majority lelaki postive, tapi diperlekeh perempuan as bare minimum, nilaikan lah siapa yg bermasalah

[dudefly @chuckynunchuck]

@meinmokhtar Gambar kote tu bukan benda normal, yg heboh kata dpt gmbr kote tu slalu account2 yg mmg ada bnyk engagement, unless awak mmg out there in social media jgn value diri awak melalui berapa bnyk org bg gambar kote, muka awam klau tk overly exposed mmg susah lelaki gila seks nk kacau

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@dahfollowbelum Perempuan tersebut boleh dianggap mangsa suci innocent sesudahnya, lelaki tersebut adalah perogol yg mengambil kesempatan

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@dahfollowbelum Mengikut kitab feminist kalau lelaki tu setuju dia boleh dianggap telah merogol kerana seks atas dasar perempuan kesempitan wang dan tiada pilihan lain, walaupun perempuan yg offer dan consent, ConSent Can't bE boUght!!

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@meinmokhtar Being emotional, throwing tantrum even worse mengambil harta suami tanpa consent utk dapatkan seks rooted in rape culture btw, ada terpikir tak mungkin awak tak pandai puaskan husband maka dia mengelak seks

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