Jeshini usipotandika kitanda asubuhi ni kosa kubwa sana. Utapigwa doso kali hadi hata Vasco Da Gama.
JKT nilikuwa nawaona majamaa miyeyusho sana kwa kufuatilia vitu vidogo vidogo kama kutandika kitanda.
Lakini sasa hivi nimeelewa kuwa haikuwa tu kutandika kitanda bali ilikuwa NIDHAMU ya kuanza siku kwa utaratibu, mpangilio na ushindi.
A Boy Becomes A Man The Day.....
When his innocence is taken away by responsibilities.
He buries his own dreams just to feed his family.
The burden on his shoulders keeps increasing, but no one sees his tiredness.
He wants to cry but swallows his tears... because now there is no one to care about his fears.
And the sad truth is.... In this world, a boy's pain is not considered pain until he starts earning.
Habari za muda huu Wafalme,
Mwezi mwingine, tukiwa na malengo yale yale ya afya.
Chochote ulichofanya jana hakina maana leo.
Septemba imepita,
Oktoba imefika.
Kaa katika hali ya Leo na sio Jana.
Huu sio mwezi wa kuzungumza. Ni mwezi wa kufanya.
Epuka kusitasita na kuahirisha vitu.
Anza pale ulipo na endelea kuboresha kila siku.
Heri ya Mwezi Mpya.
Age 5 – Dad is a genius!
Age 7 – Dad knows almost everything.
Age 10 – Maybe Dad isn’t always right.
Age 12 – Dad doesn’t really get it.
Age 14 – Dad’s lost his mind.
Age 16 – Dad’s advice is a joke.
Age 18 – What could Dad possibly know?
Age 22 – Dad talks nonsense.
Age 24 – I’m smarter than Dad.
Age 26 – Dad actually makes sense sometimes.
Age 30 – I should probably ask Dad about this.
Age 40 – Can’t believe Dad handled all that.
Age 45 – Dad was right the whole time.
Age 50 – Wish Dad was here, I’d still be learning.
RULES TO BECOME DANGEROUS
1. Don't respond emotionally-- The calmer you are, the scarier you become.
2. Show up without needing validation--That's rare, and it's powerful.
3. Never chase. What runs, runs. What's meant, stays
4. Stop oversharing--The less they know, the less they can use
5. Respect everyone. Fear no one.
7. Master being alone-- It makes you untouchable.
8. Walk away first--even when you want to stay. Power comes from control, not comfort
9. Be kind but never soft--They're not the same.
@DearS_o_n Before rushing to marry, marry your own life first, your habits, your goals, your peace.
When you’re complete alone, choosing a partner becomes a celebration, not a rescue mission.
Marriage is not about the wedding day, it’s about the years after when no one claps.
Don’t marry a woman who avoids accountability, her excuses will become your prison.
Character lasts longer than beauty, so look at her habits when no one is watching.
A wife multiplies whatever you give her, so make sure she’s the kind of woman worth investing in.
If she disrespects you while dating, marriage will not fix it, it will magnify it.
Test her patience in struggle, because love in comfort is easy, loyalty in storms is rare.
Watch how she treats money, because broken finances destroy homes faster than broken vows.
Marry a woman who admires you, not one who tolerates you, respect fuels peace.
See if she supports your grind, because a man cannot lead when his home drains him.
Check her relationship with God, because faith anchors what lust alone cannot.
Her friends matter, because women become the company they keep.
Never marry out of loneliness, desperation makes you blind to red flags.
Don’t ignore her father’s presence or absence, it shows how she views men.
Make sure you can carry yourself before carrying a family, leadership starts with you.
Never chase a wedding, build for a lifetime, because marriage is a covenant, not a show.
What I will always tell my children:
1. If a relationship doesn't work come home.
2. If the bills become too much, come home
3. If your mental health isn't good, come home
4. If you feel sad or alone, come home.
5. No matter where or how old you
are, you can ALWAYS come home. will always be your home
"Saying 'no' without explaining."
That one shift?
It unlocked peace.
It built boundaries.
It exposed who was using me.
It filtered out the noise.
Most people are exhausted,
Not from work,
Not from life,
But from constantly betraying themselves just to be liked.
You want your life to upgrade?
Stop being available for everything and everyone.
Your time is a currency....start spending it like a fccking king.
Not a clown juggling approval.
When you stop needing permission, You start living with precision.
Try it once
Say "no."
Mean it.
Walk away.
That’s the cheat code no one tells you about.