Every continent before civilization, before every race even met each other, collectively took away women's rights. Chose their arranged marriages for them, restricted their sexuality to virginity until marriage.
There were no Zoom calls. No internet. How did 6 different races on 6 different continents all come to the SAME conclusion about women?
White, Black, Asian, Latino, Indian, Arab - ALL practiced the same thing and you are fucking telling me there isn't a solid reason behind it?
Since women were allowed to choose their own partners, look at the rate of single motherhood? From 5% to 40%+ in one generation.
Since women were allowed to not be virgins, look at the rate of prostitution, OnlyFans, abortion? Millions of abortions a year.
The best generation of kids, the best schools, the safest streets, the strongest society and civilization was when your rights were restricted.
You think your great-great-grandfather was dumb? The man who built a house with no tools, fought lions, survived wars - you think HE was dumb and you are smart because you have TikTok?
They restricted you because they LEARNED. Every man learned that if you give a woman unlimited sexual freedom, society collapses. Family collapses. Kids suffer.
You call it oppression. They called it order. And their order worked for 5000 years.
Your freedom hasn't worked for 50.
Africa mourns her loss.
She sit at the mouth of her hut, behind her, the ashes of yesterday's fire.
Brown dirt clings to her wrapper like dried blood.
The wind carries the birdsongs but she could not hear.
Only the broken sobs in her throat since the message came...
"Another son gone".
Another son gone...
Not to war, the colonials rifle.
But to a boat that promised Europe but delivered him to the sea.
Africa cries for sons who boarded planes with borrowed hope... promises packed in small bags, flew over nations but will never return.
Their father's still sets plates at road junctions but it's vultures that eats the food, their mother's look longingly at the doors but it's silence that answers.
Africa cries for daughters who travelled East, to bright cities and contracts they signed without knowing the content... their names becomes just a piece of paper.
Wakanda cries for sons rotting in prisons for laws they did not understand, punished, more for being foreign than doing wrong.
Men who left, chasing dignity but found numbers stitched to uniforms instead.
Africa cries for abandonment of identity, accent shelved, skin explained, names shortened, Tokumbo is now Toki, Ibenezim is Ib, Babangida is BB... all to belong in a room that will always ask you where you are really from.
Slowly, she has accepted she may no longer see sons who will argue over inheritance or lower her to the earth when it's time.
Somewhere nearby, another mother has given birth and named the baby after a son that never returned.
Africa hears the name and heaves "Ozoemena".
Dear men,
Please know this, and know it forever.
Provision doesn't kill a man.
It's his inability to provide that will kill him faster.
You'll not live longer, if your wife is the main provider.
You'll live shorter.
Your insecurities will make you feel depressed.
The thoughts of what your kids would eat, how you'd pay their fees, and the gloomy face of your wife will taunt your inner core as a man.
The shame and silent disrespect will make you feel like a loser and a failure.
What keeps a man happy, mentally and psychologically balanced, is when he has handled his responsibilities.
Your wife's toto will constantly be wet and ready for you.
And when you have sex regularly, your immune system is boosted and your productivity is sustained.
Men do not die earlier, because they have been grinding to provide for their families.
It's how God created us.
It's in us.
You're either not courageous enough to accept your being a man, or you're too greedy or self-centered to sacrifice for your family.
No man knows when he will die.
But when you decide to take up the roles and responsibilities of a husband and father, you have signed up for a life of kindness, sacrifice, and selflessness.
Before you drink a drop of water, your family must have drank a cup.
That drop of water will give you more life and peace.
Do it afraid.
End.
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