@kendallybrown “Her being so feminine just turns me on more” where “being so feminine” means not being able to fight back and begging him to stop. Often times even the men we love, whom we trust, find genuine pleasure in seeing us endure pain for them.
@TM27220714 Also the fact that she instinctually minimized her pain and reaction afterward, and phrased it in a way that didn’t assign blame.
That’s a learned behavior, from repeated abuse.
1. Fake moans are not sexy. Try earning them.
2. If you want good head stay away from virgins. Either inexperience is attractive to you or it's not, your selections are up to you.
3. If she's awkward it's your fault. See #1.
4. Your preferences are not objective standards.
5. If she wants you to stop you're not doing it right. Your fault. Creating and maintaining the mood is your job. Get better at it.
6. If she's shy, you have failed to make her feel safe with you. Given these comments, her instinctive reaction to your presence was on point.
For clarity, there’s nothing wrong with acts of service as a love language towards your children (obviously). What is terrible is allowing your elderly, exhausted mother to continue managing tasks you are fully capable of accomplishing yourself. Take care of your mothers. ❤️
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