Chump Lady

Tracy Schorn, blogger, podcaster, author of Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life. Off X, follow me at

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In Her World, Getting Cheated On Makes You a ‘Chump’ https://t.co/omn4bpjvOv

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New Episode! "112. 'If You Must Go, I Wish You Triplets': An Interview with Virginia DeLuca"

Tracy talks with therapist, Virginia DeLuca, author of "If You Must Go, I Wish You Triplets," a candid, f…

Player links & show notes: https://t.co/yoAWfCV06J

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New Episode! "111. Discovering Your Cheater's Selfies"

Sarah and I are back after our hiatus to discuss your ex's cringey selfies. The fish. The dick pics. The ones where you're cropped out. If you …

Player links & show notes: https://t.co/q2Eu5ty9Et

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New Episode! "110. Your Terrible In-law Stories"

Sometimes the fuckwit doesn't fall far from the tree. In this episode we hear your terrible inlaw stories. The mother-in-law who asks what you did to…

Player links & show notes: https://t.co/cIlYXzqyC2

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New Episode! "109. Holiday D-Days Anyone?"

It's that time of year when it's hard for cheaters to maintain their double lives. Consequently, a lot of newly minted chumps are having D-Days during the …

Player links & show notes: https://t.co/Nh7DldBMEv

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New Episode! "108. Why Women's Pain Matters -- Tracy and the Happy Hausfrau Discuss the Epstein Scandal"

Rep. Clay Higgins of Louisiana voted not to release the Epstein files. He was the only dissen…

Player links & show notes: https://t.co/zuhaGU36DR

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New Episode! "107. Things You Will Not Miss About Your Ex"

The holidays are coming and it's a good time to remember all the things you do not (or will not) miss about your cheating ex. We hear about…

Player links & show notes: https://t.co/tECIouzCzq

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New Episode! "106. Cruelty by Nature: An Interview with Dr. Peter Salerno"

We're back with Dr. Peter Salerno this week talking about his new book "." If you've been at the receiving end of abuse and…

Player links & show notes: https://t.co/dOsahZWXJL

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New Episode! "105. A Story of Actual Sister Wives and Other Polyamory Flops"

Tracy and Sarah react to your polyamory experiments. The open marriage stories keep coming... In this episode we hear abo…

Player links & show notes: https://t.co/tnhaiq1XZP

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New Episode! "104. Your Open Marriage Proposition Stories"

We asked listeners if they'd been propositioned by their partner to be in an open relationship, only to find they were being cheated on. Th…

Player links & show notes: https://t.co/JuBVW22Iiq

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New Episode! "103. Worst Exits Ever"

In this episode we asked listeners for their Worst Exits Ever stories. The cheaters who abandoned the family at Christmas. Or during a health crisis. Or just day…

Player links & show notes: https://t.co/aZuNdSrLB2

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New Episode! "102. Life-Saving Divorce: An Interview with Gretchen Baskerville"

Tracy interviews Gretchen Baskerville author of the book and blog "Life-Saving Divorce." Gretchen has been a visible c…

Player links & show notes: https://t.co/nMKAUOYOrI

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New Episode! "101. Open Marriage Skepticism"

A recent news article discussed the increase in popularity of polyamory as an option on dating sites, while contrasting it with real life TV shows featur…

Player links & show notes: https://t.co/r96u0KJDe9

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New Episode! "100. Could Your Cheater Have a Personality Disorder? An Interview with Dr. Peter Salerno"

Tracy talks with pyschologist Dr. Peter Salerno about the intersection of infidelity and perso…

Player links & show notes: https://t.co/uWqVq0Bao1

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New Episode! "99. How Do You Define Cheating?"

Chump Nation came up in an NPR discussion about how to define cheating. Unfortunately, the commentators seemed to have no lived experience or deep sunk…

Player links & show notes: https://t.co/Y7llY6rWNp

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New Episode! "98. How to Handle It When Your Kids Get Cheated On"

What happens when you discover your teen or adult child has been cheated on? Do your kids navigate this better if you modeled good b…

Player links & show notes: https://t.co/oEY85igpYH

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New Episode! "97. How Was Your Cheater Exposed?"

Sarah and Tracy hear from listeners about how their cheaters' affairs were exposed. (None of them by Jumbotron, alas.) Some affair partners outed the…

Player links & show notes: https://t.co/XLoNDCfa1z

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5 Star Review: For the haters…

"Coming for ChumpLady is akin to a bad rerun of the Crucible. For you. This Nation is powered by the tears of cheaters, liars, and abusers. A constant reminder that th… https://t.co/SBEzKTnFyd

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5 Star Review: Love listening! Look forward to the podcast every week!

"You guys together are the best combination!
Tracey’s hilarious wit and Sarah’s Mum like gentle warmth 💐❤️
Keep up the great work s… https://t.co/ZyYN2DrYXZ

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5 Star Review: A life saver

"The best advices, whether you just found out or even after several years…very useful also if kids are involved" https://t.co/1YX3Qm5RGF

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5 Star Review: Fantastic podcast for those who’ve been cheated on

"Tracy Shorn AKA Chump Lady tells it how it is. If you’ve been cheated on (‘chumped’) this is essential listening. Forget the multi mill… https://t.co/54wtmz7nyo