There's a peaceful feeling within your soul once you realize that you finally learned the lesson that kept repeating itself again and again. You'll never face this situation or meet the same energies under different faces again. You broke the pattern. Your soul transcended.
Stop looking for closure from people who hurt you. Their lack of accountability is your closure. Their lack of apology with changed behavior is your closure. Their silent treatment is your closure. They make you the villain and playing the victim to tell everyone is your closure.
Celibacy becomes very easy for a woman when she realizes that there is literally no man worth being involved with if he isn't helping to improve her life and loving her correctly. She can go months on top of months, it’s really nothing.
How to become a godly wife in your singleness:
- Keep your heart open
- Stay celibate & loyal to your future husband
- Only have eyes for your future husband
- Focus on yourself & God
- Don't entertain anyone who isn't committed to win your heart
- Ignore people who only want to experience you (sexually)
- Exercise, look beautiful, and stay in good health
- Take excellent care of your mind, heart & yoni
- Your body is a sacred temple. Treat it with love & feed it with nourishment
- Learn new yummy recipes to cook for your future husband
- Volunteer or do more selfless acts of love
- Pray every day for your future husband & protect him spiritually
- Know your value & worth
- Fall deeply in love with your own company
- Make yourself laugh a lot, stay goofy & don't lose your sense of wonder
- Cultivate a consistent prayer life
- Trust god's plan & timing