a girl on tik tok just said "i would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect" and i think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.
My 3-year-old had an epic meltdown. Just hiccups and blubbers and snot and breath holding. We couldn't figure out why. No one could console him. Finally in between giant sobs he managed to get out, "I don't know what's wrong with me."
And, yeah, sometimes it be like that.