i think that the pitfall of attachment theory being so popular is that people wear their trauma as a hat and identify as it. You are not “an avoidant”, you are just a person who is scared of emotional intimacy and that can and should be overcame.
Kenny: “the racist text message was real and I did say a statement where I generalized but I’ve dated black women before, I have black ancestry, I’m Dominican” in extended clip he said “to use this against me is unfair”
This whole situationship argument screams 22 year olds lmao. This is such a nonissue on both parts they doing tew much chile ahhh I remember when ur friends not agreeing with u on everything was SUCH A BIG DEAL…. 😵💫😂
@femmefatalenoir@_yungting@ungodlywests Exactly! The worst thing in the world is having sex with wishy washy commitment. Because nothing about “exclusively dating” means that man won’t go out and fuck someone else
@_yungting@femmefatalenoir@ungodlywests relationships at 21/22 are absolutely not serious at all. i had like 3 bfs in my early 20s and NO KIDS. Now I know what I like and don’t like and date accordingly. A damn boyfriend ain’t that serious
@_yungting@femmefatalenoir@ungodlywests If literally is not that serious or a waste of time. If you date someone, learn what you like and don’t like, how is that time wasted? And who tf said anything about kids. Focus on the topic at hand
@_yungting@femmefatalenoir@ungodlywests Whyy does your generation think breaking up with a bf is the end of the world or a waste of time. Like omg who gives a fuck if he’s your bf for 6 months and you break up. Thats literally how life works. You guys are terrified and avoidant over something that really is not serious
@_yungting@femmefatalenoir@ungodlywests You are an avoidant man’s dream if you think that makes sense. The problem is you think when you’re single a title should be involved. And that “exclusively dating” soothes your ego. Bc if you’re not together he can go be with someone else.
@hisovvs They eat catered lunch and dinner off camera. Most of the cast just said they don’t like the food that much but they are able to request certain things.