THINGS I DONT DEBATE WITH MEN :
1. Abortion
2. Breastfeeding
3. Menstruation
4. Female body hair
5. Birth Control
6. Access to feminine hygiene products
Why? Because NONE of those involve the male body & therefore don't create any valid MALE OPINIONS
I’m FOREVERRRRRRRR praying that I get my fairytale ending.. the dream career. the financial freedom. the friends. the family. the peace. the love... just everything that I truly & genuinely deserve
No amount of budgeting, not eating out, or skipping little treats is going to make up for the fact that we simply do not make enough money for this economy.
everyone in the replies so shocked & appalled by the fact that a 10 year old can be depressed is the issue btw. why yall have adopted this mindset that children & teens can’t feel emotions so deeply to the point where they can consume you idk. no matter the age they’re humans
you don’t realize how much your environment affects your mental state until you finally spend time somewhere that feels calm and your body stops feeling tense for once
I was born for romantic love, Sunday family barbecues, quality time, lying on the chest of the person I love, spending time with my love ones,little gestures, feeling deeply, all of it.
i wanna marry into a functional family... where they have cookouts, game nights, holiday dinners and birthday parties. i wanna be able to go get breakfast with my mother in-law & go shopping with his siblings. i don't want it to be just "US"... i want a family that's oriented.
My man told me something the other day that lowkey rearranged my brain a little.
He said, “I’m not here to control you. I’m not your father, I’m your partner. You’re grown, you can make whatever choices you want. Just know every choice comes with consequences. If you pick something that hurts what we built, that decision belongs to you.”
Then he goes, “I’m always gonna tell you when something hurts me or crosses a boundary, because that’s how real communication works. But if I show you where the line is and you keep stepping over it, then you’re not protecting us… you’re just choosing yourself.”
And yeah… that’s when it clicked for me. Accountability in a relationship isn’t yelling, rules, or control. It’s someone giving you freedom and trusting you to care enough not to misuse it.
She married a caring man no doubt but you have to understand that ignoring someone’s need makes them feel unloved no matter what you’re doing in the name of love.
You can’t dictate how you want your partner to be loved, effort doesn’t always mean impact. He stayed with her, cared for her, yes but did he love her the way she wanted to be loved? No. Will she appreciate what he did, yes but will she feel loved, no
Someone’s Love language is about how they give and receive love, if you want to love them right, learn how they receive love and try to meet them there, you can’t force your type of love down their throat