My husband and I had one rule about the rent:
whoever’s paycheck clears first that month covers the full amount. The other keeps theirs.
For two years he never lost.
Not once.
I changed banks. I begged for earlier deposit. Still his money hit first every single time.
Last month I finally beat him. Paycheck landed at 7:51 a.m. I paid the entire rent by 7:54 feeling like I’d won.
At 6:02 he texted: “Can you reverse that?”
I replied: “First come, first served.”
He sent one word.
“Okay.”
Twenty minutes later the property manager called.
My husband woke me up at 2 a.m. and asked if I wanted to have sex.
I told him I was too tired.
He said, “Okay,” kissed my forehead, and went back to sleep.
I thought that was the end of it.
The next day, he was unusually quiet. I asked what was wrong.
He said, “Nothing.”
I pushed him a little, and finally he said:
“I just miss feeling wanted by my own wife.”
That annoyed me.
I looked at him and said,
You have to let a man be himself and decide if you’re down for that or not…we’re too grown to romanticize someone changing thier character to make you happy.
WHEN a MOTHER goes NO CONTACT with her children’s father, stop being so quick to call her BITTER. 💯 Sometimes she ain’t trying to punish that MAN… she trying to protect her PEACE and keep her CHILDREN from growing up inside the same chaos that was breaking HER down. She got tired of arguing, tired of drama, tired of being pulled into the same toxic cycle over and over while still trying to be a GOOD MOM. BABY, choosing SANITY over confusion ain’t revenge. Sometimes the strongest thing a WOMAN can do is stop participating in the mess and put her CHILDREN’S peace before everybody else’s opinion. ✨
CHEATING then coming HOME, kissing somebody, laying next to them & saying “I LOVE YOU” like nothing happened is a DIFFERENT level of cold. 💯 Because now it ain’t just cheating… you looking somebody directly in the FACE while making them live inside a lie YOU created. Then when the truth finally comes out, THEY the one questioning their body, their worth, their intuition & everything they believed about the relationship. That ain’t LOVE. You might love what they DO for you, love the comfort, love having them around… but you don’t deeply RESPECT somebody while secretly doing things you KNOW would break them. I said what I said.
Mariah The Scientist went live and revealed she called OFF the wedding with her and Young Thug because she caught him cheating over 5 times since he engaged to her ���👀
"This man got me smoking I'm so stressed and hurt I dont even smoke"
"He was just tryna get me pregnant"