aku ga suka konsep tarik ulur like mind games in relationship. some ppl say aku terlalu welcome n too easy to approach karena aku genuine. sometimes aku kepikiran juga, “aku salah apa ya sampai dilepas?”
but then i realized, i’m not wrong, i’m just being kind n treating people with respect.
just bcs i’m genuine doesn’t mean i’m not good enough. love should b easy, not confusing. i don’t want a relationship where i hv to pretend to b cold, hard to get, or harus main game biar dihargai.
kalau memang aku dilepas, maybe they’re just not my person. buka berarti aku kurang. the right person will appreciate my kindness, not take it for granted 🥹🤏🏻
gua benci bgt kalo cowo udh gak interest dia gak bilang, dia cuma jadi jauh dan super “sibuk” trs pelan pelan narik diri sampe lo yg pergi duluan, kaya UDAHIN AJA LO PENGECUT (trauma lol)
Peluk jauh untuk mereka yang sedang in a phase of trying to make peace with all the disappointment, without having to blame anyone for the pain they’re feeling. Itu memang salah satu tahap paling berat dalam life, but trust me and believe, you will get through this.