I hate how tired I feel at this age . Not the physical kind … the one that sits in your chest for no reason . The kind you wake up with before the day even begins . I am too young to feel this drained , too young to feel like I’ve already lived a lifetime of stress and expectations. But somehow the weight keeps building . And I keep pretending it is normal . Maybe that is the part that hurts the most . How easily I’ve learned to carry things I was never meant to hold at this age .
I don’t think we talk enough about how exhausting it is to be disappointed by someone you were genuinely excited about in the early dating phase, and just having to bury those emotions and go about your life like they didn’t even exist. Over and over again.
when you feel your mental health is going bad again, try random things. clean your room, take a walk with no destination, enjoy your favorite ice cream flavor or just ghost everyone. these simple actions can help remind you that tough times don’t last forever.
sometimes u just have to tell people look, I love u & I’ll probably love u forever but I’m no longer interested in the level of life u have to offer me & because of that I have to let u go. I’m not even asking u to change I just need u to understand that u can keep doing what u wanna do & how u wanna do it, u just can’t do it with me. U gotta love people from a distance to protect your peace & let whoever think whatever.
can we normalize not reaching out to someone who hasn't replied to a text or returned a call in hours or days. they know they haven't spoken to you, and it's because they don't want to.
Unfortunately, I don't like nonchalant men.
Be dominant. Check on me. Be affectionate.
Tell me I'm gorgeous. Plan dates. Buy me flowers. Be absolutely obsessed