people have their favourites and you might not be one of them. you could have a great relationship with someone, always show up for them, give your best and even go out of your way to make them feel special.. yet still not be the person they cherish most. it stings at first but that’s life. people love differently and their affection is not always tied to effort, loyalty or consistency. sometimes the person they adore isn’t doing half of what you do but that’s not your cue to compete for a place in someone's heart. it’s your cue to rest, remain genuine and understand that being yourself is far more rewarding than being someone’s favourite. stay where your presence is valued, your efforts are appreciated, and your absence is felt.
Hari itu dlm circle ada seorang yg kahwin
Dia tak inform atau jemput sesiapa
Orang mula berbincang & bertanya-tanya
Respon saya pada mereka:
Jangan libatkan saya dlm perbincangan anda
Jika orang nak jaga hal peribadi mereka, kita hormati kehendak mereka
Tak perlu nak bincang
Bukan tak nak tapi mesti akan ada golongan yang-
“Ala baru kahwin boleh la tunggu 10 tahun”
“Ni nanti end up cerai jugak”
“Terpaling kahwin”
“Semoga suami kau kahwin lain” etc
Orang yang ada hasad ni sentiasa nak tengok life kita miserable. Lagipun takde keperluan nak share.
Allahumma inni as’aluka everything good in this dunya and akhirah. Health, wealth, success, calm heart, rizq, strong iman and a life full of barakah I never expected. Ameen.
True. Sebelum kahwin i joined webinar Aiman Azlan. Dia selalu sebut dan ingatkan bahawa kat dalam dunia ni akan sentiasa ada orang yg lebih baik. Sama ada lebih baik dari orang yg kita jumpa atau diri kita sendiri. You just have to know when to stop searching and comparing.
isn't it funny how we all wanted to be professionals with degrees and high paying jobs but now we just want slow mornings, good coffee and a regulated nervous system