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[lilaaaa @cinderlilaa]

Rekap ✨ bekal mazdino ✨

[lilaaaa @cinderlilaa]

Halo @GrabID pesanan grabfood saya tidak diantar oleh driver tp status di aplikasi sudah selesai. Tolong dibantu

[lilaaaa @cinderlilaa]

Kalian @GrabID aneh bgt deh. Mesen grabfood buat makan siang, dari jam 12 lalu dicancel driver dan bikin ga dapet2 driver lagi. Lalu pesanan dibatalkan sepihak tuh gimana sih!????

[lilaaaa @cinderlilaa]

Baru mau mulai cari mbak tapi udah sedih bayangin jane pisah dari daycare, dari miss nanny nannynya, dari nyanya, kakali, kakkinan 😭

[lilaaaa @cinderlilaa]

@MOHU_Care i am dalila from Indonesia, want to register nusuk app for Rawdhah entry. But when I try to register with my email, passport number, visa have notification already used. I try to reset the password, OTP did not enter my email even though I tried several times. Pls help

[lilaaaa @cinderlilaa]

@MOHU_Care i am dalila from Indonesia, want to register nusuk app for Rawdhah entry. But when I try to register with my email, passport number, visa have notification already used. I try to reset the password, OTP did not enter my email even though I tried several times

[The Biblical Man @Biblicalman]

My wife stopped fighting with me in 2018.

I thought we'd finally figured it out.

No more arguments about the dishes. No more sighing when I forgot something. No more asking me to help with things I should've noticed myself.

Peace.

That's what I called it.

For two years I lived in that silence thinking we'd reached some kind of marital maturity.

Then one night—11 PM, night before Thanksgiving—I found her crying in the kitchen.

Making pie crust from scratch because my mother had made a comment the year before about store-bought being "fine, I guess."

I asked what was wrong.

She looked at me like I was a stranger.

"Nothing."

That's when I realized:

She hadn't stopped fighting because things were better.

She stopped fighting because she stopped believing I would ever change.

The silence wasn't peace.

It was resignation.

She'd built her entire life around my absence…while I was still in the house. Eating the food she cooked. Sleeping in the bed she made. Parenting the kids she was raising.

And I called it partnership because I brought home a paycheck.

Most men don't have a marriage problem.

They have an absence problem.

Their wives stopped asking because asking hurt too much.

So they carry it alone. The meals. The schedules. The mental load. The holidays.

And we sit on the couch checking our phones thinking "at least we're not fighting anymore."

Brother, fighting would be better.

Anger means she still believes you could change.

Silence means she made peace with the fact that you won't.

Tomorrow is Thanksgiving.

Your wife is going to wake up before you. Start cooking while you sleep. Manage the chaos while you watch the parade. Clean up while you digest.

Unless you don't let her.

I wrote the protocol for coming home to a marriage you've been absent from.

The 5 stages of wifely resignation.
Why "I'll do better" doesn't work anymore.
The 30-day silent rebuilding system.
The conversation she needs to hear.

It's called "When She Stopped Asking."

Link below if you want it.

But whether you buy it or not—wake up first tomorrow.

[lilaaaa @cinderlilaa]

Banyak kerjaan dan ga punya tenaga buat ngapa-ngapain sampai siang ini

[lilaaaa @cinderlilaa]

Gausah gratis gapapa ya Allah kalo dia mah, tiba-tiba dis punya duit lebih buat daftar gitu juga gapapa banget gausah dikasih aku duitnya gapapa buat daftar umroh aja 🤲🏼

[lilaaaa @cinderlilaa]

Ya Allah, alhamdulillah banget aku dipanggil lagi buat berangkat umroh tapi tolong ya Allah sekalian suamiku ikut juga 🤲🏼

[lilaaaa @cinderlilaa]

Pokonya akan terus kuungkit meski katanya para nenek yg satu pengen eek yang satu bingung jadi ikut nunggu di kamar.

Suaminya lagi ribet ngurusin administrasi anak sama nguburin ari-ari.

Tapi akan tetap kubahas “pas dipanggilin keluarga ibu lila sampe 3x ga ada yg nyamperin”

[lilaaaa @cinderlilaa]

Sementara akuuuuuuu…

[Restoring Your Faith in Humanity @HumanityChad]

She planned to record her mom’s reaction to seeing her first grandchild... But instead, her mom walked right past the bassinet and came straight to her - HER first baby. Before even looking at her grandson, she gently asked how her daughter was feeling, if she was in pain, if she needed anything. And in that moment, she realized: No matter how old she gets, she’ll always be her mom’s baby first. ❤️

Credit 🎥 - anna 지윤 on IG

[lilaaaa @cinderlilaa]

Padahal pas mo operasi ada, suami, nyokap, mertua. Pas kelar ga ada.

Ga adaaaa keluarganya bu lila

[lilaaaa @cinderlilaa]

Ini kesel kesel gue tinggal sih. Udah bener gue inisiatif benerin nyari dimana letak salahnya masih aja “kenapa ga kamu benerin sih skip mulu”

Yaelah lu pada udah bukan skip lagi kan tp ga tau itu salah

[lilaaaa @cinderlilaa]

Memang sudah betul working mom itu untuk tidak sering-sering membuka cctv agar supaya hati tidak terlalu ingin menangis pengen sama anak aja 😭

[lilaaaa @cinderlilaa]

Ya Allah aku tuh aslinya ga kuat-kuat amat jadi tolong jangan susah-susah 🤲🏼

[lilaaaa @cinderlilaa]

Hal hal kayak gini gue lagi ajaa yg ngerasain paniknya kecewanya… ga pada ngerasain perjuangan mompa asi sih

[lilaaaa @cinderlilaa]

Nangis banget 700ml asi terancam kebuang karna ga ada yg ngeh itu pintu kulkas kebuka ga ketutup rapet 😭😭😭😭

[lilaaaa @cinderlilaa]

Lu @MarshaFAcha kek gini klo mau dinotice jidi

[ü @frhjiyongie]

Jiyong noticed his fan making funny sound ���� love the energy from FAMs in Jakarta 🥹

#GDRAGONinJAKARTA

[lilaaaa @cinderlilaa]

@PriciliaAB Bagaimana aku tidak menangis tersedu-sedu cuma krn pagi-pagi laper bgt pasca lahiran tp cm berduaan doang sm nakbayik 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲

Semangaattt yaaa kita bisaaaa