People have been using the term slave way too loosely in bdsm which has desensitized what a slave actually is. Some subs think this is a game they can stop playing at any time. This is not just a vibe.
A slave someone who has handed over authority in a real, ongoing way: decisions, schedule, body, finances, social life included. I have order. The dynamic doesn’t clock out when we leave the dungeon or close the chat. It’s a lifestyle.