I saw a lady sharing that her man paid all the bills while she went to school and raised their kids. Now she's a registered nurse, and she's holding things down while he studies engineering. That's what partnership looks like.
I don’t know a single man that would date women they don’t find attractive but because she’s “nice”. So why are women obligated to date men over niceness alone.
in order to become a better person, you must first realize how horrible you really are. not in the dramatic sense, but in the quiet ways you sabotage yourself, repeat unhealthy patterns, hurt people who care about you, or tolerate what wounds you. you cannot grow if you keep pretending you’re innocent in the story you’ve created.
men today have porn, OnlyFans, dating apps, and unlimited DMs. More access to women than any generation in history, yet somehow they still can’t commit, stay loyal, or be satisfied. Too much access didn’t create fulfilled men, it created men who don’t know how to value anything.
You should study what makes you defensive. The topic you avoid, the joke that irritates you, the question that feels insulting, the feedback you instantly reject. Defensiveness is usually the guard dog sitting in front of a weakness you have not trained yourself to face.