There’s much more but this is enough to show the torment I dealt with. It’s insane to see the number of sexual abuse and assault both girls and guys deal with but it’s a sad and ugly reality. I just hope that the girls before me will have their justice served and you too Jovin.
I would always have anxiety whenever he would closed the door & blocked it with his bed because then I knew I wouldn’t be able to leave. I usually had to fight back but then he would threaten to kill himself. Being in the room always felt like madness.
When I refused & fought back he turned the shower on and I was entirely soaked. He then coerce me to doing it so then I could make it in time for the event. That was just one out of the numerous time he has sexually assaulted, got physical & emotionally blackmailed me.
That was the first and last he ever..raped me. Instead he would coerce me into doing it with him. Sometimes he would threaten me and at times it gets abit physical. Once he locked me in the shower to force me to take off my clothes instead of gng to a sch event.
The first time it happened it was after school and I was at his house. I remembered it was raining badly and I was doing my work in his bed. That was the first time he forced on me. I was crying so hard while he tried to coerce me into agreeing midway.
Recently I lodged another report on him because he started harassing me over pics I posted of myself on IG. He tried to publicly harass my clients, my fam and I.
He started harassing me via msg and when my frnd took hold of my phone she saw that he had ss a post he made on fb with my nudes on it. And when I tried to diffuse the situation he tried strangling me.
It was when I found out that he had other cases on him for similar offenses and I honestly don’t know who tf he is anymore. He often silent me by publicly harassing me on social media. Once I was having dinner with my frnds when he turned up out of nowhere few tables away.
While in Vietnam when I didn’t reply to him or posted a photo without his approval he would go insane. He once messaged my 12 year old cousin asking him if he wanted to watch STH. Intending to show explicit content of me but it was eventually deleted before my cousin could see.
I had to eventually leave the company it was then when I found out that while making my life miserable he was cheating on me with an underage. To this date idfk how many girls he has cheated on me both emotionally or physically.
It got to the point where my BOSS was involved and I had anxiety gng to work because everyone knew by then bout the shit happening. Jovin was fucking rude in the text and email sent. This was how he dealt with things when I fought back at all the work places I have been.
In Vietnam, I had to call him everyday during my break even if I was eating with my colleagues. I was not allowed to have any male colleagues if not I was risked being harassed again. Eventually I got tired of that shit and had lunch with everyone. He started messaging ppl.
In the span of our r/s I had 3 diff jobs and freelanced, 2 was an internship in SG and Vietnam respectively and the other was at a preschool. In all of them he had continuously threaten me to disrupt my time at work.
I have finally garnered up enough courage and strength to bring light on the matter of my experience with sexual/emotional abuse, sexual assault, harassment etc. This thread is about my harrowing experience with my ex, Jovin Liau
I feel like I have been saying this pretty often but filing a sexual harassment case is almost pointless. For 3 fucking years I dealt with torment and abuse and when I had the guts to file a report and then ANOTHER report, still nada.
this video of me sobbing and doing math homework after my dad yelled at me while my mom just recorded has resurfaced in my life....... my childhood was a fever dream...........