If you’re ever venting to me and I start talking about my own situation I promise I’m just trynna show you I can relate but I hate that I do that because it seems like I’m making it about myself, when I just want you to see I understand and why I understand 🤣.
When you finally realize that someone’s behavior has more to do with their internal struggle than it ever did with you, you learn grace. You also naturally learn detachment as well.
i swear you hit an age where the late nights & hangovers aren’t fun anymore like all i wanna do is relax, bond with the people i love, save my money, & build my future
i think the hardest thing about adulting is that you literally have to keep going! no matter what mood or situation you’re going thru. you gotta keep going cause life goes on.
the minute someone starts making you feel like you’re going crazy or like what you feel isn't valid or ur making shit up in ur head is the same minute you have to remove yourself ... bc that's how it all starts, that toxic relationship. making you feel insecure, like you're crazy, etc. hard no.
idk who needs to hear this but you can be a good person and still express your frustration. you can be a good person and still lose your patience. you can be a good person and confront an issue assertively. it doesn’t take away from your character. Let your feelings flow we’re all human beings.
marry the one who pursues you but keeps doing the things he did after he already got you, marry the one who checks on your mental health, marry the one who doesn't disrespect you when he's upset with you, marry the one who wants to learn everything about you and still loves you