making your male lead literally say he can’t breathe at being separated through time and space from the love of his life in a romcom of all things is insane btw
i was shocked to discover that there are some people who actually can't visualize images when reading a book coz for me, an entire movie is playing out in my head with the perfect cast
Men need sex like women need reassurance. Same need, different mechanic. He goes a week untouched and starts acting unhinged; she goes a few days unacknowledged and starts detaching silently. Men fall apart without intimacy, women fall apart without consistency. No “gm,” no “home safe?”, no “I got you,” no “we good?”…and you expect softness out of that? Be so serious. Make her feel wanted and she’ll give her all; make her feel ignored and she’ll disappear like she was never there. Reassurance is her pre-game. Starve her emotionally and she’ll revoke your whole membership. Men want attention, peace, loyalty, touch… but can’t send ONE message? Boy, bffr. Same need expressed differently. he wants touch, she wants consistency.
NOBODY knows a man better than the woman he’s in a relationship with. when i say NOBODY, i mean NOBODY. not his PARENTS, not his HOMIES, not his SIBLINGS. they see ONE SIDE of him... but his girl gets the RAW, UNFILTERED version. the BROKEN version. the LOVING version. the HATEFUL version. the UNSTABLE version
LAZINESS can kill a relationship. no, you’re not CHEATING. but there’s also NO FLOWERS, no SURPRISES, no APPRECIATION posts, no SWEET MESSAGES, no DATES (unless your s/o practically BEGS for them). so yes, the truth is LAZINESS can SLOWLY kill LOVE. sometimes, simply being LOYAL just isn’t ENOUGH
In a relationship you can't just do what you want. you always have to think about how it will affect your partner. That's what this generation doesn't understand.