Once you cut people out of your life, you need to become very comfortable with them talking bad and making things up about you. Because they will fill your silence and your absence with stories that make them feel better about losing access to you. People rarely take accountability when it’s easier to paint you as the villain.
only reason i tweak about a nígga is cause im already barely interested in níggas to begin with.. so for a mf to come waste my time is why ima crash everytime cause you could of left me tf alone DUMB BTCH
Can we talk about how exhausting it is to continuously have to ask someone that claims to love you to give you basic respect and at the very least do the bare minimum and then seeing everyone around you be loved so effortlessly by their person
Some of us had parents who were physically present but emotionally absent. They cooked. They cleaned. They paid the bills. But they never hugged you, affirmed you, or made you feel safe. That’s a scar too.
I'd be lying if I said I didn't get in my feelings about the way people treat me, but I've learned it's life & everyone isn't me. everybody don't show the same love I show and for that I'll be okay.
I’ve become so at peace with things I used to let bother me. Now I don’t even entertain the negativity.
I graduated from paragraphs to “ok,” and sometimes I don’t respond at all. Every action doesn’t deserve a reaction.
I found my inner peace, and now no one can touch it.
One thing I’ll never do again is deal with emotionally unavailable, non romantic, nonchalant men. Just a waste of time begging them to understand where you coming from lol.
You’re only considered a mean woman when you have standards, boundaries and self esteem. I’m the friendliest, kindest person, however i don’t let anyone play with me. It’s a switch and once my switch is off, it’s staying off.
a woman working 40+ hrs a week, paying for her own hair, nails, rent, car, food, gas, handling everything by herself, is not going to be the soft, feminine woman you expect her to be. and no, she can't bring you peace when she's in survival mode.