@Duhhstyy So nice to see something positive! This really made me smile - same story with me and my boyfriend, now almost 9 months on I couldn’t be happier! Wishing you both all the best!
@BhattiLaib9960 Your mother is entitled to her opinion but it’s your ring, you have wear it. He chose it for you and if you like it, keep it I don’t see the issue 🤷♀️ it’s a beautiful ring by the way!
@Scarlett1476896 I don’t know what’s more disturbing - the fact you’d even joke about that or the fact the women are automatically so suspicious and ready for war lol
@MatthewCoast I always offer to pay half, even with my boyfriend now, 8 months on, I don’t feel right not offering. He doesn’t have to accept or agree but he appreciates the fact I offer.
I was in similar position for 9 years I lost so much if who I was. It wasn’t untill I met someone new, who actually looked at me not through me, talked to me instead of at or down to me, listened and made me feel valued that I realised how different I’d become. Each day I’m relearning how to be myself again, how to not constantly be in survival mode and expect the worst. It’s hard but you will get there. The right person will support your growth and peace and want the best for you.
I met my boyfriend online, neither of us were really looking for anything at the time, but once we started talking we just clicked. Talked for hours every day, when we eventually met in person it was even better. Now 8 months on and it just gets better everyday. I guess we were both just lucky we found each other 😊
This made me so sad. I had the same thing for many years in my last relationship, to the point where I just cut people off, didn’t see or speak to anyone because I didn’t want to be accused of anything or made to feel guilty for being social. I couldn’t even go to work or visit my family without constant calls, txts and interrogations when I got home. Yet he could talk to, hangout with and go where he liked. If I questioned him I was told I was paranoid and crazy! So in the end I stayed silent. Took me a long time to realise how fucked up it all was!
@recovery_your I’ve felt this alot throughout my life but I’ve since learned that the right people will never see your need for help and support as a burden.
@PempressP Yes you can and you will be fine - I’m now starting over at the age of 42 it’s never too late to begin again, find your peace, be happy and live your best life 😊