I am proud of the woman I’m becoming. My mindset has changed. My tastes have changed. My tolerance has changed. I am loving myself more. I am evolving, and I’m all for it. I’m becoming everything I prayed for.
A LETTER TO MY AVOIDANT PARTNER
I never wanted to change you.
I just wanted to feel close without scaring you. I learned that your silence wasn't punishment it was protection.
That your distance wasn't rejection,it was fear.
You loved me in the only way you knew how from a distance.
And I kept trying to meet you halfway... until l lost myself there.
Now I understand love isn't about chasing, fixing, or proving.
It's about staying whole, even when someone else can't meet you. So I'm loving you differently now.
From peace, not pain.