my problem is i want to be a stay at home mom but i dont want my husband to work either because i want him to stay home and keep me company so what now
Watching your kids for an hour so your wife or girlfriend (who stays home every second of the day raising your children) can go to the grocery store without kids is not a break. If you believe that’s a break you’re contributing to the downfall of her mental health.
Hope that helps.
describing women who clean and run a house, look after multiple children and source and prepare food for a spouse as “not working” is surely one of the most successful conspiracies of the 20th century
I explained to my 3yr old son that his 6mo brother will one day be able to walk and run, and will always want to play with him. He will want to go outside with him and shoot water guns and nerf guns and build legos with him. He will never have to ask, "Do you want to play with me?" because he is always going to be playing with him.
I wish I could burn an image of his face, filled with absolute awe, surprise, and excitement, into the back of my eyelids.
I really believe that siblings are one of the best gifts you can give to your children.
Motherhood is a gift, children are a blessing and it’s also the hardest thing I’ve ever done. Something can be good and also hard. Expressing challenges and desiring for things to be easier is not the same thing as wishing away the present or being ungrateful.
I USED TO WONDER WHY HAVING A BABY ENDED SO MANY FAMILIES, Now i understand it has nothing to do with the child.
it has everything to do with how deeply a woman changes. her body carries the weight. her mind carries the fear. her heart carries the responsibility.
and still, she’s expected to be the same woman she was before birth as if nothing inside her shifted. that’s not realistic. and it’s not fair..
Why do y’all act like ending up as a 40 year old single cat lady is the worst case scenario??? My worst nightmare scenario is ending up as an undervalued mother and house wife to an incompetent man.
Parenting is tough. If you don’t give your kids enough structure, they gonna do drugs. If you give them too much structure, they’re also gonna do drugs. like HOLD ON😭😭