The more you do for people, the more they take from you, and get mad that you're too tired. The more money you spend on people, the more they hate you, regardless of how hard you had to work. Worst of all, they lie to you or claim they don't want help, or some other BS narcissism
You can try to teach a bird to fly, but humans are so destructive, you'll tear off its wings trying. You can teach morals but if your spirit is filthy, it's not going to stick. Be an example