Getting betrayed by someone you've explained your pain to, someone who knows your past and what you've had to overcome, and then they go ahead to do the exact same thing they promised never to do. This is one of the worst ever. It breaks you completely.
normalize leaving people to avoid empathy burnout. yes, i love you, but i am tired of having to ask you to consider me, and i am tired of you not seeing where you went wrong.
Go deeper in your relationship with God. God knows the perfect version of the woman he's called you to be. The only way to become that woman is by growing in your relationship with God and seeking God above all else ❤️
Not everything is worth fixing. Move on. The only reason people take you for granted is because they assume you'll always be there. Prove them wrong. No second chances for those who had full access and abused it. There are better people out there waiting for their first chance.
ngl,this year really woke me up. I see clearly now,who's for me and never was. I learned to set boundaries, stop overextending myself and stop pouring into cups that don't pour back. it's not easy,but it's necessary and peaceful
People avoiding me after they’ve done me dirty is exactly what I expect. I don’t require closure. I get it. You’re a cowardly weasel. You were a weasel when you did it, you will likely respond to the situation as a weasel would.
My last relationship really opened my eyes. Going back again and again doesn’t mean anything will change. You can love harder, be more patient, give chance after chance, pray on it, wait on potential, and still end up right back where you started. Same problems. Same excuses. Same patterns. Same disappointment. I learned that effort doesn’t fix what someone refuses to change.
y’all will literally drain the niceness outta a person and then act shocked when they stop being sweet. ain’t nobody born mean… people get worn down, disrespected, and pushed there.
i really be having to sit myself down like girl… you’re gonna be okay. everything will work out, everything will come together. it always has, and it always will.
Ain’t nothing “weird” about me. If you rub me the wrong way, im either doing two things.. speaking on it &/or removing myself & revoking your access to me. I don’t move weird. It’s very black & white w/ me. Ain’t NO grey areas.
If I ever stop talking to you & remove you from my life, I hope you understand how hard that was for me. I have a bad habit of holding onto the little bit of good in people, no matter how bad they clearly are for me. So if I don't fwu anymore it's bc you pushed me past my limits
You need to learn to stay away from people who make you mean, crazy or reactive. That's not you or who you want be. So if they bring that out of you, they’ve got to go.