Having a CONSISTENT Man that’s in the mood for u everyday is TOP TIER. He wants to talk to u everyday no matter how busy he is. A man that craves ur energy. A man who cherishes you. A man who desires ur presence. A man who provides & protects. A man who brings out ur soft side >
Nobody prepares you for how much quieter you become in your 30s ! You stop needing to be seen, chosen, understood or validated ! You just want to feel rested, regulated, grounded & at peace !
I think people underestimate how tired you can be from just having too much on your mind! Not even physically tired! Just tired of remembering things, handling things, thinking ahead, fixing stuff, making decisions, being needed, tryna stay afloat etc. That's just a lot for real.
The economy is whooping everybody's asş. Please DO NOT feel embarrassed about your financial situation right now. A lot of people are struggling, and we're all just doing the best we can to get through it.
Things I don't debate with men:
• Abortion
• Breastfeeding
• Menstruation
• Female body hair
• Birth control
• Access to menstrual products
Why? Because none of these involve the male body.