I am a trans man but I’ll never perceive myself as fully a man. I’m dating a woman but my relationship is inherently queer no matter what because I am not a man, I’m a transgender man.
This isn’t to say that this is the solution for everyone. You can be transgender and consider yourself a man. It’s completely fluid and up to yourself and no one around you.
Just felt like I had to explain, I usually call myself “gay” or “queer” because I don’t feel particularly-