A woman enhances the life you have already built or are currently building, and gives you children.
She can’t build for you, and can’t give you direction or purpose in life if you don’t already have it. You are just expected to get it or she bounces to a guy who does.
Men spend too much time on reversible decisions and too little on irreversible ones.
For example, very little thought into the career they work for forty years and the woman they marry. “I guess I’ll do this, and yeah we get along fine”
Then spend weeks/months on FB Marketplace
A woman does not only date you.
A woman dates the vision you have for the future.
So when your goals and values start taking a backseat to pleasing them all the time, watch how fast respect and attraction fade.
I can't half ass whatever it is that I'm doing.
I'm either fully dialed, working 12 hours, meals and nutrition locked in, sleeping 5 sleep cycles.
Or
Celebrating the moment fully immersed with friends and family.
Nothing in between.
No way I’m working on my future just to settle down and take care of someone’s daughter who hasn’t done anything with their life except party & get passed around
Some of you never clap when you see your friends winning and that is precisely why it will never be your turn.
I pray all of my boys achieve their dreams, have happy healthy families and their wives don't have anything to worry about.
Anything less, you're not a true friend.