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/you.dee.ass/ • God • Law & Order • LLB, BL • Super cop

[E 👑 @coco_udy]

I wouldn’t think of myself as a feminist
I’m more of a free spirit, a liberal being

[Muna @Munalozy]

Love always returns. Maybe it will be in a new person, hobby, or environment, but it will always come back.

[HRM Oki Clifford Mayowa 🇳🇬 @djspeakz_ent]

If you want to do IVF or you want to remove Fibroid but you don’t have money. Just go to the nearest Access bank in your area and reach the customer service. All you need is just letter from the Hospital and the invoice from the hospital.

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[E 👑 @coco_udy]

I love wild Luna by Harley Spencer

[Champ ✨ @YoriOlajide]

Air peace has bad services

[E 👑 @coco_udy]

IGP recommends dismissal and prosecution of ASP Nuhu Usman and his team over the killing of Mene Ogidi.

[HONITEL👑 @HonitelHQ]

If you owe me an apology, things will never be normal between us until you outrightly apologize. If you don’t, I will cut you off. We don’t do that here.

[MrsN💎🦋 @MrsN_L]

I was already exhausted… cooked, cleaned, and still dragged myself out to get my hair done for tomorrow.

Got to the salon, almost left because the hairdresser wasn’t around, but the barber said “wait, she’ll be back.” I stayed.

Few minutes later, she walked in with her kids, a little girl around 4/5years old and a toddler, maybe 2 (boy).

[E 👑 @coco_udy]

A WOMAN IN HER PRIME 🎀✨🩷
Happy birthday Udy

[E 👑 @coco_udy]

Don't try our new IGP, he is a two time black belt holder!!!

[E 👑 @coco_udy]

Don't try our new IGP, he is a two time black belt holder!!!

[Ebun @kenkenlewu]

My boyfriend is one of the most blunt and honest men I’ve ever met. Just a few days after we officially started dating, he told me we needed to sit down and talk so we wouldn’t waste each other’s time.

When we met, he said he had a few things to share, and one of them has stayed with me ever since:
“I take care of my woman very well, if she takes care of me.”

He went on to say, “Apart from sex, which we’ll both enjoy, what else can we genuinely offer each other? I won’t ask you for money or expect you to buy me things, so what kind of physical care can you give me?”

I understood exactly what he meant. Since then, whenever we’re together, we share responsibilities, cooking, washing, and other tasks.

It’s not about one person serving the other; it’s about building a rhythm of mutual support.

Relationships aren’t about entitlement; they’re about reciprocity. If support is optional on one side, it can’t be compulsory on the other. Love thrives when both partners give, receive, and grow together.
The real love language isn’t gifts or grand gestures, it’s reciprocity. If you’re not ready to give as much as you expect to receive, you’re not ready for love.

[eisha 🍒 @meishato]

My boyfriend wrapped his arms around me and said, “I love you so much. I’d do anything for you.” I smiled and joked, “Then buy me some bread.” He laughed and said, “Okay, let’s go.”

We walked to the bakery nearby. I chose a loaf and went up to the counter. The cashier asked how I wanted to pay. I turned to my boyfriend, expecting him to step in. He didn’t. He just looked at me, confused. A quiet pause settled in. The cashier waited. I waited. I genuinely thought maybe he’d misunderstood. So I asked gently, “Weren’t you going to get the bread?” His expression shifted. He pulled out his card, clearly annoyed, and paid. The moment we walked out, he accused me of embarrassing him and putting him in an awkward situation

[S𝖎𝖗 S𝖊𝖆𝖓 🇺🇸 @seanpepisky]

Honestly , this question is heavier than it looks.

Because once a woman clocks 30 and she’s still single, the assumptions start.
Not curiosity. Not concern.
Judgment.

There’s this quiet conclusion that she must have done something wrong.
Stayed too long in the wrong relationship.
Focused too much on work.
Was too picky.
Didn’t “behave well enough.”

Nobody ever stops to consider that maybe… life just happened.

Maybe she loved deeply and it didn’t work out.
Maybe she walked away from something that would’ve destroyed her.
Maybe she chose peace over pressure.
Maybe she simply wasn’t ready ,and that should be allowed.

What’s funny is how men of the same age aren’t questioned the same way.
A 35-year-old man is “still building.”
A 35-year-old woman is “running out of time.”

That difference isn’t biology alone.
It’s how we’ve been taught to see women as timelines, not people.

The truth a lot of people don’t like to say out loud is this:
Women in their 30s usually know themselves better.
They’ve learned from mistakes.
They ask harder questions.
They don’t rush because of noise.

And that makes some men uncomfortable.

So instead of saying “she won’t tolerate nonsense,”
society says “she’s old.”
Instead of admitting “she’s more aware,”
they say “something must be wrong with her.”

It’s easier to label a woman than to accept that she chose herself.

Being single in your 30s isn’t a failure.
It’s not a moral flaw.
It’s not evidence of bad character.

Sometimes it’s just proof that you refused to ruin your life just to meet a deadline someone else set for you.

And if that makes people uncomfortable…
maybe that’s the point.

[jonzing. @ehisssss]

if you're able find someone in this generation and you're both able to work together towards creating an amazing life for each other, hold onto that; because people nowadays have the craziest and most unrealistic expectations across both genders.

[Ghost Writer ✍️ @Prezain_LJ]

I understand the desire to be careful and intentional about marriage. That part is reasonable. But your framework has some serious logical and real-life flaws that need to be addressed.

First, cohabitation for 6 months to 1 year exposes a woman to disproportionate risk. Pregnancy is the most obvious one. Biology does not wait for timelines. If she gets pregnant within that period and you suddenly “discover” she is not wife material, who bears the heavier consequence? Definitely not the man. We have seen this play out countless times in real life. Men walk away, women are left with the physical, emotional, and social weight.

Second, living together often kills motivation in men, not improves clarity. Many men lose the urgency to marry once they start enjoying the full benefits of marriage without commitment. Food, sex, companionship, emotional labor, domestic support. All without vows. I have personally seen men stay in such arrangements for years, always extending the “observation period,” until the woman is exhausted, older, and resentful. If cohabitation truly guaranteed marriage, we would not see so many long-term girlfriends being abandoned after “trial periods.”

Third, a man does not need a woman to live with him for one year to know if he wants to marry her. Character is not hidden for twelve months. Values, temperament, kindness, discipline, emotional intelligence, conflict resolution, and compatibility can be assessed through intentional dating, honest conversations, family exposure, stress situations, and time. If after months of dating and consistent interaction you still need her under your roof to decide, the issue is indecision, not lack of information.

Also, let’s be honest about power dynamics. When a woman moves into a man’s house unmarried, she is almost always the one adjusting, compromising, cooking, cleaning, and proving herself. Meanwhile, he positions himself as the examiner, judge, and final authority. That is not partnership. That is probation.

Now let me ask you a sincere question. Would you allow your own sister or daughter to go and live with a man for 6 months to 1 year without marriage, just to be “tested”? A man who can send her packing at any point if she fails his standards? If the answer is no, then the rule is not principled, it is convenient.

I am not condemning cohabitation outright. Adults will make their choices. What I condemn is the timeframe and the structure. A healthier alternative is frequent visits. Let her spend a week or so with you, go back to her place, repeat over time. You still see habits, routines, moods, conflict, and compatibility without trapping her in an arrangement that benefits you far more than it benefits her.

Finally, if we strip this argument to its core, it often sounds less like “protecting the future” and more like looking for free labor and guaranteed sex while deciding if the woman is worth committing to. If that is the case, it is more honest to say that plainly, rather than dressing it up as wisdom and due diligence.

Marriage should not begin with one person auditioning under unequal risk. It should begin with mutual intention, protection, and responsibility. Anything else is just comfort disguised as caution.

[E 👑 @coco_udy]

@JobFound5 I’m interested

[E 👑 @coco_udy]

@ScholarshipfPhd Hi

[Sophia ❣️ @KeruboSk]

Picture this:

It's Sunday morning in 2030. You're making pancakes in the dream house you build in 2029, with the money you saved up in 2028. After making a big career move in 2027 with the help of someone you met in 2026.

Good things are coming this year.

[neya 🌷 @lilybilysily]

go back in there & scratch her.

[Joe @Iykecole]

to put an end to this stagnation. I am trying to raise around N400,000 for the space I found and the other requirements needed for a start.
Please, help save me from these dark thoughts.

3086577318
Firstbank.
@DONJAZZY @maxvayshia @Wizarab10
Thank you & God bless you immensely